Category: Ellery
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To the Big City

It’s been a miserable week.
While everyone is finally healthy, work has crashed down on me. I have been at war with a printer. Not the small, desktop kind, but the big professional corporate kind.
I don’t even want to go into it, but it involves a whole of me screaming and yelling at people over the phone. And they’re people who don’t really deserve to be yelled at, but they are my representatives to The Organization. Young children, who were likely in diapers when I learned to use Photoshop. Yet, they’re attempting to school me in it.
And somewhere in between there was me doing a really crappy job at everything else in my life, including motherhood, Halloween preparation, parades, and field trips.
I came out of the week knowing that I ache for people whose lives are that stressful all the time, and I understand why they keel over prematurely from a massive heart attack. I can’t take that kind of stress on a daily basis.
I also know that I need more of the good stuff. Much more.
Friday was one of our last glorious days, and I was facing it solo. So I made plans to pick up Neko from school and head to the Big City. Mary Beth and her mom, Nancy, jumped in as an unexpected bonus. We traveled down to the purple bridge. Hiked across. Played. Laughed. Hiked back. We tried to get a table at the pizza place, but the wait was too long. So we took our order to go, and ate outside, listening to a live musician.
Not much pizza was eaten. Neko and Mary Beth ran and swung around in a way I remember so clearly from my youth. The decibels were a little much for Shep, who planted himself firmly in my lap. But Ellery? She danced her can off, the whole night, without a break for pizza.
In the future? Less yelling at 24-year-old printing reps. More of this kind of goodness.
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Fall

I adore fall.
And after our week-long stint with the flu and the accompanying quarantine, I was afraid we had missed it.
A few days ago I tried to drag all the kids out for a fall walk and the hopes that I might snap a few photos. Apparently all of us, me included, weren’t quite out of our grouchy flu funk yet. Mission aborted.
But today I managed to get out Shep and Ellery. And for a brief stint, they let me snap a few photos. And then demanded I put the camera away and take them to the library.
I’ll take what I can get.
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Yahtzee!

Yahtzee has been big around here lately. Neko has been playing at school, as it teaches counting, addition, and the beginnings of probability. She's got crazy good luck, and crushed me the other night with two Yahtzees and a complete lower section of her score card. Meanwhile, I was crossing out categories as I failed to perform.
I know this is a terrible photo, but I thought that especially Anne
would appreciate this moment. Having mastered the game, Neko has decided to teach Ellery and Shep how to play. -
Saturday morning science

My children, you should know that not everyone’s life is like this. Not everyone has a dad who turns cardboard boxes into houses complete with chimneys and mailboxes. Not everyone has a dad who pulls out amps and microphones and turns our living room into a concert venue. Most kids don’t have a dad who dusts off the sewing machine and makes capes on a whim.
This morning as I sipped my coffee, I watched him tearing apart an old hard drive, flanked by the three of you, each holding a screwdriver or a set of pliers.
Your lives are bound to be full of crazy. But based on the last eight years, it’s mostly all the goood kind of crazy with some crazy crazy mixed in. Not a bad deal if you ask me.
Happy anniversary.



























