
There's that whole adage about parenthood—give your children wings and then let them fly. Which, you know, I thought meant when they were 18 and I packed all their belongings into our minivan and carted them off to college.
But I can see it's going to come much sooner.
Going with ice skating with Neko used to be a bit of a challenge. She wants to go fast, but lacks the patience to learn the skills. So she would hang on my arm the whole time, demanding to go faster. Although great quality time, inevitably, the next day I would wake up with some sort of tweak in my back from being in an awkward position for two hours.
However, Neko's school has begun its winter skating program, where the whole school goes skating on Friday afternoons. Enter Kaili, super-partner, and today Neko proudly proclaimed that she can skate by herself. She can even turn easily, because Kaili taught her how (many demonstrations followed).
And so she could. For the first ten minutes of skating today, she clung to my arm, but then she took off. I could barely keep up, not just because she's quick, but she's tiny and can squeeze past people when it gets crowded.
This is the view I saw most of her today. Periodically, she spotted a few friends, and went skating off with them. I suppose this is the beginning of that whole wings thing. At least, for the time being, I get to watch her as she flies.