The Farm Report

Category: Shep

  • Fall Farm Fest

    Fall Farm Fest

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    I love a good farm festival, and we found one today. With Neko in preschool, Susie and I were able to take Shep and Chris on a little kids outing. I love Neko dearly, but sometimes when we do an outing, Shep and Chris spend their whole time trying to keep a four-year-old pace. Today we were able to slow down and keep it on a two-year-old level. Which was excellent.

    By the time we left they had each caught a fish (which we threw back), fed the ducks, and harvested potatoes. There were a ton more things to, but we ran out of time. Which is just fine, because I think we’ll be making a return trip or two before winter comes.

  • Hole in one

    Hole in one

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    Dear Dr. Sears/Brazelton/etc.,

    What, exactly, is the proper response when your 2.5 year-old stands up in the tub and proudly displays this foam bath toy on his wiener?

    Anxiously awaiting your response.

  • Now what?

    Today was a bit of a shock to my system.

    Neko is going to preschool, and I’ve got that under control. She’s still a little clingy, but after we take off, she seems to be having a great time. Check.

    So after Tom left to drop her off, I’m all like, “Um, now what?” For four years my life has been driven by Neko. And Shep has happily played along, because he’s happy to do what Neko wants to do. And Ellery just wants to be fed and held, so she’s pretty easy to please.

    School runs from 9am-12pm. Just long enough to be a big chunk of time if we stay local, but not long enough to go to the big city and return in time for pick-up. We have a few things in the cue that will fill the space, but in the meantime, Shep and I need to figure out what we like to do.

    And for the moment, I’m not sure either of us knows what that is.

  • We celebrated Bonnie’s birthday with haircuts

    We celebrated Bonnie’s birthday with haircuts

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    The last few weeks in August are deadly. Every activity goes on hiatus and all of a sudden you’re in this activity wasteland. Suddenly you’re making a whole day out of ridiculous things like a trip to the post office.

    So today we went to get haircuts. Neko is a girl, so we only got her hair cut every few months. Shep is a boy, and good lord, who knew boy hair had to be cut so often? What is the deal with that? Kate Hudson must be on to something, letting her boy grow his hair down to his knees.

    But Shep, I love you so much when it comes to haircuts. Neko is a nightmare, and I have to sit in the chair with her, preceeded by a lengthy coaxing/bribing/lecturing session. You just hop into the chair, look down when they say to look down, and don’t even flinch when they use the clippers. And then you happily hop down, get your lollipop, and even throw the wrapper away.

    Thank you for this gift. It is priceless.

  • Shep and the Purple Crayon

    Shep and the Purple Crayon

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    Lately, Shep has developed a fondness for crayons. He likes the big chunky ones, and insists on taking the paper off. I think he likes the waxy feel, and the chunky ones have a good heft to them and fit perfectly in his hand.

    He usually only has one or two crayons at a time, but he needs to know where they are. At nap time they aren’t allowed to go in his crib, so he places them gently on his dresser so he knows where to get them when he’s done.

    Today we spent the morning outside, playing in the 95° weather, the crayon must have gotten a little soft, much to Shep’s delight. By the time we got home, he had colored himself and the straps of his car seat.

    And then we had a long talk about how crayons only belong on paper.

    (No, he didn’t ride home unbuckled. I started to unbuckle him and then, like any 21st century mom, realized I should probably take a picture first.)

  • Multi-tasking

    Multi-tasking

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    We’re already doing cry-it-out, part two (I gave up until we had Ellery in her new room…cry-it-out two feet from your bed is a stupid idea). And since we’re complete gluttons for punishment, we’ve decided to tackle potty-training Shep while we’re at it.

    A few weeks ago I bought some underwear in preparation, since he’s been using the potty with some success. This week I ran it through the wash, and casually showed it to him when it came out of the dryer. He loved it and demanded to put it on. And when we’ve been home for the past few days, he’s been wearing underwear. We’ve been having success, but lots of accidents, too.

    I’m having an internal struggle about what to do. I don’t want to push him, but he does seem genuinely interested. I’ve been having flashbacks of potty training Neko in the winter, peeling off layers of wet jeans and socks and shoes. A pair of shorts and sandals I can wash in the sink is so much easier. But then, selfishly, diapers are so much more convenient. I had forgotten the whole process, the asking if you need to go every 30 minutes. And the accident after accident. And oh, lordy, I’d forgotten how many pairs of underwear you can run through in one day.

    So, I dunno. We’ll see how we are in a few days. We might be so tired from all the sleep training that we won’t have the energy to do laundry and everyone is going to be naked and then we’ll have to potty train.

  • Shep’s new room

    Shep’s new room

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    It was time. Shep was on the verge of crawling out of his crib and he was still in bedroom with the stairs that Neko kindly showed him how to scale…on the outside, cleverly outsmarting our gate at the base of the stairs.

    So we’ve been quietly working on the back bedroom. Friday night they spent the evening with R&D, so it gave us a chance to do the finishing touches. Saturday, upon his return, we showed him his new room. He is ecstatic, and hasn’t even given his old room (now Ellery’s new room) a second glance.

    His favorite part? A hook so he can hang up his guitar.

  • Shep’s turn

    Shep’s turn

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    Shep is a second child. And I’m ashamed to say that he owns very few things. We got all this stuff during the first few years of Neko’s life because she needed them first. And they aren’t really hers, as we often say, they “belong to the whole family.” But let’s be honest, she’s the one who plays with them. And Shep’s not really a “thing” guy. He loves that guitar and a ball of any kind. But he’s not often particular about which ball he has, and Neko just doesn’t really care about the guitar.

    For the last two nights Shep has asked to sleep with Neko’s Woody (the character from Toy Story, people). I’ve had to stealthly sneak it out of her bedroom while she isnt looking, because even though Woody isn’t in heavy circulation at the time, the minute she discovers Shep wants him, she then demands him back. This is the first time he’s really ever expressed a desire for a thing, so when Tom called from Chicago saying he wanted to bring something home for the kids and he happened to be standing in the Disney store, I had an Oprah lightbulb moment. It was time for Shep to have his own Woody. And Jessie.

    Tom didn’t really have to buy one, though, because when they became big favorites of Neko, I ordered another set because they were limited edition and they don’t make that kind anymore and it always pays to have a back-up. So when he arrived home, I just had to get the box from the basement.

    This was tough for Neko. She really wanted Shep’s new Woody. She offered that he could have hers and she could have the new one. But we stuck by our guns, and she ultimately conceded.

    And tonight, Shep snuggled in with his new Woody and Jessie. His very own, with “Shep” written across the bottom of Andy’s boot.

  • Rock star

    Rock star

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    No, he’s not really playing, but he thinks he is, and that’s what’s really important, right?

    He’s really starting to get his rock star shtick down, including the furrowed “don’t bother me” brow.

  • Camping

    Camping

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    Yes, we did spend the whole day on the patio, and there’s more, so just bear with me.

    Neko decided she and Shep were going “camping.” The high chair cover that was drying is their camp fire, and they are sitting there having a picnic, which is obviously what you do when you camp.